Chicken Wings & Fries: The Only ‘Date’ You Need
Yo, fellas, listen up. You been out here spending your hard-earned cash on fancy dinners, trying to impress women with candlelight and soft music, right? And what you get? A polite ‘thank you’ and maybe a ghosting. Nah, we ain’t doing that no more. Not on my watch. We talkin’ chicken wings and fries. That’s it. No dates.
See, when you roll up with the ‘chicken wings and fries’ mentality, you ain’t playing games. You ain’t trying to buy her affection. You’re saying, “Look, I’m here, I’m cool, let’s chill, and if we vibe, we vibe.” It cuts through all the BS. A real woman, a woman who’s actually interested in you, she ain’t gonna care if it’s a five-star restaurant or a spot with the best lemon pepper wings.
So what does ‘chicken wings and fries’ even mean? It means you ain’t planning a whole production. It’s a quick link-up. “Yo, I’m grabbing some wings, wanna pull up?” Or “I’m at this spot, they got good fries, come through.” It’s spontaneous. It’s low-stakes. It’s about seeing if there’s a spark, not about putting on a show. You ain’t gotta dress up, she ain’t gotta dress up. It’s just two people seeing if they click.
This approach, my G, it saves you time, it saves you money, and most importantly, it saves you from getting played. You filter out the women who are just looking for a free meal ticket. You attract the women who are down for a real connection, or at least, a real good time, without all the pretense. You get to the point faster. You get more ‘yeses’ because the pressure is off. And yeah, you get more hookups, because you’re showing up as a confident man who knows what he wants, not some dude trying to impress.
Some of y’all might be thinking, “But won’t she think I’m cheap?” Nah, fam. She’ll think you’re confident. She’ll think you’re real. She’ll think you’re not like every other simp out there trying to buy her attention. And if she does think you’re cheap? Good. She ain’t the one for you anyway. You just dodged a bullet.
So next time you’re thinking about asking a girl out, ditch the fancy reservations. Think simple. Think casual. Think ‘chicken wings and fries.’ Get your game up, fellas. Stop wasting time and start getting results. That’s how you get girls on your terms.